is this a real healer

Myself and my husband paid R1700 upfront to see this aso called traditional healer. He told uis to also bring along 77 eggs, a mirror, pictures, and R7700 which we would get back after the session. We both did not know what to expect as this was our first experience. When we got there he told us to go and buy Inkomazi which is also needed to perform his work. He took us into a small, dark, smelly room. There were two candles on the floor. And he made us sit down in a corner next to the miniature hut. He had an empty box and told us to firs put all our photos in the box and then we had to both take our eggs and each egg represent one year of our lifes and we had to make a wish loudly with every egg we placed into the bucket. My husband was told to lay the inkomazi on its side on top of the eggs... He told us to follow him back toi his office where he fgave us both big pinch of cinamon which we had to wash our faces and he told us to go back to the room and we sat down. He told my husband to hand him the inkomazi. He placed the inkomazi straight up in the pot tand handed my husband a big knife and told my husband to stab into the side of inkomazi  and then told me to do the same. My husband was told to open the inkomazi and pour it into the pot. As he was pouring it there was a miniature coffin and two miniature human bodies and a miniature head shape thing inside the box and which fell in the pot. He took the knife and he stabbed it into the head shape thing and first blood and the it burst and there was flames. He told us that he had to call on the ancestors for help because the problem is to big for him to handle.  Then we had to hit the drum three time and call inyanga out loud.  Thenwe  had to blow out candles because the ancestors doesn't like to be seen. Then a loud husky voice started talking wich told us that we both and our 2 children is gonna die and that we should leave the R 7700.00 we brought for luck purpose in the box and that we should immedialy pay another R3800.00 for 4 goats which need to be slaughtered and that we must pay another R100 000 cause he needs to get four camels from Botswana that needs to be slaughtered.My husband told the ancestor that we don't have money as it is and that we can't pay the R100 000 to which the abcestor then relied by telling us we have to sell everything we own and don't have much time because the two of us and our kids are gonna die a horrible death. He told us to leave the room and told the healer to lock everything and he said we can't have the R7700 back it must stay in the box.  W were both so shocked and afraid I left for the bank to draw the R3800 they requested for the goats. On the way to the bank he called us three times telling us to hurry back with the money. On our arrival he wasn't there so I called him and he told me he is by the fuel station and instructed me not to move my vehicles. Within 10 min he arrived and asked for the money. He tokd us to go home as we are not allowed to be there when the goats are being slaughtered and that we should do anything possible to come upo with the R100 000 needed for the camels he need to get from Botswana.This happened yesterday. Today he called ten times demanding the money cause he need to leave to Botswana to finalise the camel deal and that our time to live is noty long. What must we do please help